| THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP MAKES A DIFFERENCE |
 | Ever Want Your Own "Personal Assistant?"
Angelo, I always avoided the idea of 'therapy' because I felt I would have to admit that there is something wrong with me --JT.
Hogwash! Therapy doesn't mean something's wrong with you. It's a tool for personal growth. It's necessary wellness education. I work by internet (skype), phone, or in person.
In choosing a psychotherapist, research reveals the most important thing ...
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| TOUGH CONCERNS |
 | Tough Concerns
"Where do I fit in? I'm not your average gay man." "Is it all about sex and parties?" "I'm tired of the bars?" "What's with all 'the attitude'?" "Why aren't gay men nicer to each other?" "Why's it so hard to meet a man?" "I need more friends." "I don't know how to meet guys?" "I don't know how to talk about safer sex?" "I'm angry about unrecognized unions." "I'm the only gay guy at work." "I want ...
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| HAD YOUR SHARE OF STRUGGLE & STRIFE IN THE HARD KNOCKS OF LIFE? |
 | Have You Had The Misfortune Of Experiencing Alienation, Mistreatment Or Abuse Growing Up?
It makes sense that you would want to distance yourself from a painful childhood. Even though you have moved on in your life, carrying a distressed past can get heavy. You may think that you can go it alone, believing it is unmanly to share your feelings and weaknesses in therapy for unknown benefits. You may think you should have been tougher and protected yourself. You may fear that one small le...
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| GAY GUYS GONE WILD |
 | Too Much Partying? Stuck With A Tough Habit? Break Free.
While much has improved, being gay is still hard in America and many other cultures because it's so stigmatized. Even if you're out, shame can still linger in your heart. Shame can manifest into low self-esteem, emotional distress, increased suicide risk, and physical dis-ease. We may self-sooth to comfort ourselves in pleasurable ways, counter-acting, or medicating the stress and pain of internal...
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| BEING GAY IS NATURAL |
 | Gay Is Natural - "Gay Is Good." Franklin Kameny
Having walked the walk, I help gay men thrive and sustain relationship in a sometimes insensitve world. I approach gayness as something that's positive, natural and healthy. Much of our suffering comes from experiencing other people's negative reactions to us being gay, not from being gay by nature. I think almost all gay men experience psychological / social trauma because of prejudicial gay stig...
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| BUILDING CONFIDENCE |
 | Feel Like You're Not Good Enough? Want More Confidence?
Maybe all you do is try your best, or constantly work out, and still feel like you're not hot enough? Do you spend your time trying to figure out what guys want? Feel broken – like you have a fatal flaw? It's hard out there with all the pressure to measure up. Often we can be hardest on ourselves. To help you be gentle with yourself, here are four confidence building questions.
What aspect o...
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| GETTING CONNECTED |
 | Want To Be Closer To More Gay Men? Break Isolation. Get Out And About.
Frustrated? Find yourself thinking: "I need more gay friends." "What's with all the attitude?" "Why's it so hard to meet a man with substance?" "How do I make my relationship work?" "How do I come out?" Get solutions in my upcoming events. Make it about community, not "the scene."
For solutions, order your copy of STRAIGHT ACTING — GAY MEN, MASCULINITY, AND FINDING TRUE L...
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| 10 QUICK TIPS TO FIND TRUE LOVE |
 | Get Your Set Of Keys For True Love
Need more friends? A Mr. Right Now? Romance? A Mr. Right? Want to be closer to the man you're with? Over the "straight acting" thing? Get your set of keys with my 10 Quick Tips To Find True Love and much more. Simply register as an AskAngelo.com member to get your free report, or listen to the podcast, or check the calendar of events for the workshop.
For much more on this topic, ...
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